One of the only things I miss about D2L discussion boards is that I felt it was a bit more inviting of interactive discussions between all of us. Maybe it's just me, and it usually is, but I kind of miss that format. That being said, I am hoping to turn this particular post into one that has a bunch of "replies" to it. So, to get the ball rolling, here are a few questions (some directly aimed at one person, and others aimed at the entire group of us):
1 - Marybeth, how is your laid-back style coming along?
2 - Luke, what's been going on in your 20minute class? In fact, anyone else who has that 20 minute class... what have you been doing with it?
3 - Give me one thing that drove you bat-shit in the beginning.. only for you to have conquered that since.
My example: In the beginning, I was very much annoyed by the lack of participation by the same students everyday. While I still struggle with this, I made it a point to start eating lunch in the cafeteria one on one with those students. It actually helped with some of the students. For those who it hasn't, I am still trying different approaches, but at least I have had an experience where I made the situation better. That actually has given me enough juice to keep pushing with the others. Small victories are a beautiful thing.
4 - Give me your worst experience of the semester so far and how you overcame or solved it.
Mine - It was for our first RPG. I wanted to do it with my homeroom kids in their C.A. class. I felt as though the comfort level was the strongest. So, I hit record. About two seconds later, one of the behavioral problem kids started beating the piss out of her desk because she wanted a drink of water. Now, before you think that we were torturing her, we were about 10 minutes from when school started, so she had plenty of time to get a drink before coming to class. Also, it wasn't like I was saying she could never get a drink. I just needed her to wait 5-10 minutes until I was done giving instructions. Well, she kept pounding the desk, which led to her classmates getting out of hand too. I thought that I should try and hurry through the instructions to get the RPG video shot, and then I would address the behaviors. Well, that proved to be the mother of all dumbass moves. It got worse. My co-op removed the desk-pounder, but by then the class was lost. It took me almost 10 minutes to get everything in order. I was demoralized. To makes matters worse, I couldn't even watch the video to see where it went wrong cuz I used the wrong ipad program to record. I felt completely overwhelmed and just wanted to crawl under a rock. That day was the end of my week and I absolutely dreaded coming back the following Monday. I was so worked up over it that I barely slept that Sunday night. Monday morning came.... I walked it and got ready. The opening school bell rang, and I was already sweating. The kids walked in, including the desk-pounder.... who immediately came up to me and said, "Hi, Mr. Houseman! How was your weekend?" I literally was about two seconds away from soiling my pants. I couldn't believe she didn't even remotely show signs of any type of pent up aggression over that day's events. Ever since then, I have learned to keep a short memory, cuz that's what my kids do. Every day is a new day. If you have a bad one, go home and let it go so that tomorrow, when you walk in, it's
you who is the one smiling first.
It's not a fool-proof plan, but it sure as hell beats the other way.